Saturday, October 29, 2011

Helpmate

 
Have you ever wondered about
the attributes of a great help mate?
He’s the one who actually listens
            when she talks.
She hands him a hammer
            when they’re building shelves.
He bags the groceries
            while she pays the cashier.
He holds her tightly
            just because he knows her need for it.
She lets the silence hang
            while he puzzles out life’s newest challenge.
He calls home to let her know he’ll be late—
            he knows how she worries.
She doesn’t make a big fuss about
            the muddy footprints, or the toilet seat left up.
He hands her a drink as she walks in the door
            from extra hours at the office.
     And she thanks him for his thoughtfulness.
They snuggle on a regular basis,
            just because it feels so right and good.

Help Mate: Helping each other with no
        expectation of reciprocation.
            It’s done out of love.
                                                        -Evy Kristensen, Portland, Oregon

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